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"ASK THE DANCE DOCTOR!!!" featuring 09-23-09 Dave Maxx I
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Well, Well, Well,......Once again we know that the "Contest
Season" is upon us, when in the few days after the contest there is "mayhem & confusion"...and everyone
who didn't think you or your friend/instructor won is a hater. And although its a dirty shame,....No One does "mess"
better than "US"....and I hope you know what I mean when I say "US". We need to make a real effort at
change people...because this foolishness is beyond ridiculous! Simply put, the Stepper's community is becoming the perfect
example of "Crabs in a barrel" actions & rejection of standard for doing things properly, and
replacing it with "That Will Do" mentality, when it won't....This is nothing to be proud of!!! We as a whole are
abandoning the very elements that we claim are what Steppin is all about....Class, Respect, Sophistication, Maturity, True
Sexiness, and FUN!!! And it needs to change before we run more people away from this dance than we attract to it..... Anyway,....This weekend we saw it ALL, & I do mean WE SAW IT ALL!!!...LOL!!! We've also heard a lot of verbal noise,
some legitimate, and some by people who need to be quiet and learn about...#1...this Art Form....(Steppin,
not old school or new school or some hybrid featuring all kinds of things from other styles - STEPPIN), #2....the
actual traditions...(not simply our instructors opinions, or what you heard - don't just repeat what the preacher
says, you gotta read your Bible for yourself & in Steppin you must look for yourself to gauge if you are on the right
page), #3....the actual RULES & GUIDELINES of the dance....(NOT the rules that you wished
existed, or what made you holler or entertained you best)...., and do these things BEFORE becoming scholars on things
that you haven't taken the time to learn about before running off at the mouth. I've listened
and heard a lot. So, before getting into the question that I chose this week, let's take a look at a few of those statements,
followed by minor rebuttal..... The contest would be boring if it was done how they're are
tryin to do it - This contest started 20 years ago, when most of the people complaining didn't have a clue about
Steppin & it was ALWAYS entertaining & EVEN WITHOUT TRIO, which is not a part of ORIGINAL STEPPIN...it was just a
great entertainment feature!!! There was a conspiracy...it was rigged...they only had one new school judge
up there - Last time I checked, most New Schoolers were still takin classes and have just started doing the dance in the
last few years...Where is the experience to be able to determine what is what? How many of them have had the drive to get
up there again - even after they don't win? How many call for "special" concessions or more categories
just to get better odds to win?....but wanna claim fabulous titles such as "master & top" instructor? We, the contestants, should be able to pick the judges - When many of the contestants are willing to cheat, lie,
complain and even step down in category level to attempt to avoid real competition just to win.....WHY THE HELL WOULD
ANYBODY TRUST YOU PICKIN A JUDGE!!! They started TOO late and it wasn't organized - On this one
I gotta throw Pete under the bus...BUT...I also realize that its VERY
VERY difficult to pull off an event of this size while trying to depend on other people to help you, who may not be as clear
as they need to be on how to get it done the way you want it, or be as savy as Pete is in handling problems. Its impossible
to "clone" yourself and do ALL the jobs and make it a GREAT event that has no inconsistent moments...it just doesn't
exist. But to say that the event was horrible is not fair.
Also, what many should realize is the fact Pete
is not an Event Planner, he's a Stepper who became a promoter, saw an opportunity and put himself on the line when others
didn't,....to make a contest that was DEAD & GONE, come back to life. The event is not perfect, but you have to admit
that it is one of the grandest events taking place in Steppin. In addition, it takes a lot of money & personal frustration
to make things happen, and just tossing money to get more help isn't always an option when building the event.....I've
done events that are no where near as large and have wanted to choke people as EVERYONE around wants to talk or complain to
you and only you.....and you know how we are when we think that we are special. In my opinion, this was actually one
of Pete's better events, though it did not fulfilled everyone's personal desires.....but with time I'm sure that things
will improve. QUESTION: If you haven't done
so already, can you publicly address your opinions on some of the events that occurred at this weekend's World's Largest Competition
in Chicago? Specifically I'm referring to a few things:
- The result of the 1st, 2nd & 3rd place category in the New
Skool Category. I'm assuming that because of the boos from the crowd, many people disagreed with who took first place.
- The
1st place winners of the Masters Category. Many people thought the winners were not "show stoppers",
so they should not have won
- The lack of "appropriate" attire on several of the contestants.
- The overall judging of the contest. I heard later that evening that
several "heavy hitters" felt that parts of the contest were not judged fairly or correctly. I overheard
one "heavy hitter" said the contest was "rigged."
- Any other feedback you have on the overall contest itself.
Although I enjoyed myself thoroughly this weekend, I
heard many out-of- towners say they would not come back to the WLSC after some of the events I described above. ANSWER:.....NEW SKOOL Category - MAJOR SIDEBAR....Let
me say that I hate that name...it should be ORIGINAL STEPPIN - Open Division, (This would better account
for people's styles who fit better with younger dancers). Using those other terms only creates a division that SHOULD NOT
exist among Steppers. Not only that, but Steppin has always been something that drew us closer, bridging the gap between older
and newer while "welcoming" new & younger dancers into a more mature realm. Steppin has effectively reflected
cultural traditions respectfully, while not throwing those traditions on the fire in hopes of changing it all
in the name of progress, or to make an excuse for outright changing something and calling it innovation, when its
actually copping out. Whether you like it or not, the dance that many New Skool instructors are teaching
is a Steppin hybrid, that includes so many "made up" elements that the real dance
is getting lost with watered-down BS & personal preferences being served up as legitimate format, and its making the dance
sloppy. New Skool dancing increasingly focuses on men never learning to dance, but simply walking around while spinning the
woman repeatedly...much like salsa rather than "true' Steppin which is based on foot movements, and not flurries of turns....and
women being so attached to basic that they are never let go, or allowed to learn to do REAL footwork instead of those BS routines
panned off as footwork. Keeping the dance smooth doesn't mean that you can't do turns or be exciting...but there is a real
difference between turning and repetitive spinning....Claudell Jackson is one of the greatest dancers around and uses a lot
of turns, but those turns are in control and tempered along the format of Steppin not based on another dance. And he actual
uses footwork to embellish the dance rather than just walking around and continuously turning his partner. I think
the misconception is that Steppin can't have turns & still be ORIGINAL...they can be included,
but should be developed to go across style lines & be executable regardless of era, body shape or size, where
you live or even by who & where you learned, but should rather be hinged on the actual BASIC principles of STEPPIN! Steppin
is a 'social' dance which encourages social interaction during the dance & true appreciation of music for ALL who endeavour
to enjoy it....
"ASK THE DANCE DOCTOR!!!" featuring Dave
Maxx 09-13-09 I am now doing a
regular blog that will include some additional in-depth essays - questions & topics, in addition to past questions
that I've done here on the Dance Doctor Column...so continue to catch me here every week as well and become a subscriber
to my blog...CHECK IT OUT!!!..... http://dance-doctor.blogspot.com/
QUESTION:.....Considering your statements
on counting & learning to dance in your last article.....Is learning the count is still important? Or, are you saying that
using numbers as a "reference point", or early "auditory learning tool" is no longer valid? I've
always thought that you need to 'know the count' to aid in developing movement memorization, and now it
seems that I'm reading you stress that learning a count as not being important. ANSWER:.....Even
though EVERYONE does not learn to dance using a count, in today's Steppin Era....Most people do!!! Which somewhat causes a
rift between those who do & those who don't...or at least leads to a misunderstanding of the learning process because
they've entered the dance community via different paths, yet it really isn't important how you learn, but what is important
is that the Basic FORMAT is consistent & the same. Much to the dismay of the masses, there are also Classes &
Instructors here in Chicago, where they do not use numbers to teach in the traditional format, or according to what people
expect...but the FORMAT & TIMING of the dance is consistent. Now, as it relates to students of the dance
who are learning in this Era in classes where "Counting" is the "base method' being used to teach the dance......Learning
the count is ESSENTIAL to learning the basic. If you go back in my articles you will find that I laid out the level of mastery
necessary to move to the next or intermediate levels. In addition, when the student is able to do the BASICS in
that manner, they are more apt to be able to "let go" of the numbers.
Numbers are, or rather SHOULD BE, used
in initial BASIC drills & in "introducing" the "primary/fundamental" turns and footwork because the
student is still early in the learning process, and in most cases will still need "reference" points to relate when/where
movements should be executed. The student is moving into an area of learning that is executed with the upper-body, but which
is precisely reflective of the action performed in the lower body. Most dancers will need something to help them build a transition,
which is the numbers. But, just like in learning the Basic Step....the students must be weaned off of the numbers so that
he/she can relate ALL movements to the song playing and everything away from the "crutch/numbers"....its the equivalent
of taking off the training wheels on a bike.
This is why its so critical for students to take their TIME &
pay attention early on, and to not simply reproduce the fundamental turns & movements introduced, but to "practice
& master" the movements so that he/she can make conscious decisions that are also effective and consistent while
styled to be reflective of the music being played. The idea of starting students out with a lot of movements, in my opinion, is
ill-advised because they are learning to reproduce, not make good or definitive decisions or even understand what they are
doing or be able to ariculate the concepts which make up the different "building blocks" of executing those turns
or footwork.
The key to this dance is to MASTER the "primary or fundamental" elements & concepts
and then learn to transition & bridge those concepts to creatively create combinations and develop styling....but those
PRIMARY elements should be explained or introduced with numbers, initially. The student has effectively learned
the turns or footwork, when he/she does not count and doesn't need too....just like in Basic they should be able to call out
the movements, describe and execute the turns, ALL while holding a conversation and/or sing the song playing.....at this
point, they are ready to create bridges, transitions, etc...aka...Combination turns, as well as be able to actually implement
footwork moves at appropriate times, but ALL of this is being executed in a logical, controlled, and effective manner. The MOST IMPORTANT element to know & understand is Steppin is the Rhythm of the song....and the rhythm defines
the BEAT........
QUESTION:.....What
can I do to get the most out of my trip to Chicago for the World's Largest Stepper's Contest this coming weekend? Its
my first time coming out there, and I want to see as much of the REAL community as I can? ANSWER:.....Well, this weekend is a blessing and a curse for getting a well-rounded feel for
what is really going on in the Stepper's community because there is a lot going on, and you can't get it all in. But
the biggest thing that I would encourage you to do is to come with an open mind, and to clear your head of a "heaven-like"
experience. Steppin here is good, but if you expect too much, you're gonna disappoint yourself. But here are a
couple of suggestions.......... Don't just go to the World's Largest sponsored events -
Steppin IS NOT determined by the World's Largest...it is not the "go-to, include-all" thing going on here....
They do a good job of bringing things together, but at the same time, it is not attended by everyone, so you need to move
around to get a look at the community as a whole. Find some additional events & parties to go
to - Make the most of your time here!!! I think that every student coming into this dance shouldn't be
laying claim to old or new school, but rather should be embracing the dance. To do this you have to go to venues and dance
with people that may not include your guide or instructor's preferred venues to hit. Two MAJOR places
that I suggest to go to are Leanna Richard's "3rd Friday Set at the 50 Yard Line"
- This party is attended by several of the REAL LEGENDS (not us New Jacks) and Stars of Steppin that you
have probably never heard of. They play all of the music...do all of the dances of Steppin....and the party kicks off at 5pm
- GET THERE EARLY, before you go to the big party at Mr. G's...it is definitely worth the visit...BUT....Here, you MUST
follow the RULES of Steppin & Etiquette....Stay in your lane, Dance to the actual song thats playin, This ain't the
contest don't do all those turns - At this party you gotta DANCE...and they will let you know if you are wild!!! If you go,
tell Leanna that I sent ya over.... LADIES!!! There are several of the BEST female dancers at this party if
you wanna pick up some styling tips.... Also, go to the EAST of the RYAN late on Friday after
the Mr. G's party...its an underground spot, but there is a lot of good dancing & music over there. If you stay through
Sunday, Check out my party at the Dorchester in Dolton with Just Us Productions with Mellow Khris on
the box...it is an early set, and after that I'll be heading over to 3G's for the Late Show with DJ Eric
Taylor & Lady Margaret Check out different classes or take a workshop....BUT Don't go overboard
- When you're in the Chi, don't overdose on the classes and get into all the debates and stuff....You're here to
have FUN, so do that.....After more than two sessions with a couple of different instructors, you are not retaining anything
& just wasting money.....Take the time to see our city and enjoy the weather before its gone.......No I haven't decided
if I'm doing a workshop or not, but if I do, it'll be Saturday afternoon......to keep in the know, send me your cellphone
number to maxx@davemaxx.com, and I will text you all the info by Friday evening (If I do it, it will be a humdinger!!!....and
yes, it'll include Walking, but I am not sure) If you have the chance to meet some of the popular
Steppers that you've heard of, or are a Fan...let them know and introduce yourselfeven if you've done it before!!! -
Pick the brains of these people if you have questions, and broaden your understanding of the dance......We DO NOT all have
the same opinions or philosophies, but thats OK...take the time to listen and figure out what makes sense to you, and what
you see as logical and that works for you.... All of the dancers that I know are very friendly and open to meeting and talking
to you....don't worry about what you heard, introduce yourself and find out for yourself!!!...You will be surprised!!!
Don't just buy music from the DJ's....Talk to them - Understanding the music and learning about what
you're listening to, and what really is classic steppers music and what is a fad is important to know and learn about....whether
anyone really realizes it...the DJ controls the party, and needs to be interviewed to understand what is REAL Steppin music
and what is just hot for the next 6-weeks!!! Go to Harold's Fried Chicken - If you don't
know or ain't heard, you're missing it!!! Go to Gino's East, Giordano's or Lou Malnati's Pizza
- Cause its Chicago Baby!!! .....and last of all HAVE FUN!!!!
- Yes the World's Largest is a competition, but this event has gotten away from what it once was, because
people see it as a means to be better than someone else. I wish all the dancers GOOD LUCK!....BUT....whether you win a title
or not, DOES NOT define you as a person or a dancer. Several people have won who are still subpar dancers who don't have
a clue...AND...Most of the BEST OF THE BEST DANCERS have NEVER bothered to even get in the contest because it never mattered
to them....so getting in the contest doesn't make you better than anyone else, or a scholar on this dance should you win....So
enjoy the weekend for what its worth - Good Fun & Competiton without all of the hating & drama....and thats coming
from someone who has a few WLSC trophies in his living room!!!
"ASK THE DANCE DOCTOR!!!" featuring 09-10-09 Dave Maxx Q:.....With all the variations of the dance being taught,
various schools of thought, methodologies, frameworks (and lack thereof), what can a student do to ensure that they can take
their dance across the country and be able to roll? A:.....HHhhhmmm......Tough Question - One of the most difficult things to do as a "Student"
of this dance is to figure out what is "legitimate" info and what is garbage. The first thing that anyone should
do is ask the Instructor that they are vetting is, WHAT is your philosophy on Steppin, and teaching or learning it? If that
person's response claims a school of thought like.....I'm New School, and I teach New School...Be Advised that you most likely
will only be able or be more conditioned to dance at new school venues, to faster music, and will ostracize yourself from
an entire style of dance. What I am seeing being introduced a lot across the country is a lot of "contest" moves...meaning
moves that violate the basic principles of the dance. If
you are learning moves that CANNOT be done in a standard lane-space, then it does not work across the board (Steppin is a
controlled dance where you must exist & perform in a contained area)....If you are learning a Basic step that is long,
wide, or sends you into your partner’s space, then it does not work across the board (By overextending the Basic in
any direction, you are hurting the dance & cutting the Lead Dancer short)....If you are learning "phantom" turns,
meaning those that take place without being lead...ie: "I moved out of the way or my spot, so you are supposed to just
go over there," then it does not work across the board (ALL Turns/Moves in Steppin should be Lead...there is no telepathy
in Steppin, and everybody didn't take the class you took . . . Every dancer has different preferences, but if you learn to
cater to the preferences of a particular instructor then you cut yourself off from being able to effective dance with people
who don't have the same philosophies) . . . If everything you learn is geared toward fast music, then it will not work across
the board (Steppin is NOT a fast dance . . . It’s a smooth dance that can be performed fast, at times). In addition to simply realizing, what fits into the Steppin framework,
also ask the Instructor about his REAL ability . . . If he/she is saying that Steppin came from the Bop . . . can that Instructor
show you the Bop . . . is that Instructor aware of and able to perform the other styles of Steppin or are they simply able
to tell you about them . . . Ask them if they attend different types of parties and clubs, both old & new school (If that
Instructor only goes to one type of venue, then they probably only do one style of the dance) . . . If an Instructor claims
to be a MASTER Instructor, but doesn't know how to Walk, and walk for real, what makes them a "Master" . . . ASK
QUESTIONS!!!! There is NO SINGLE WAY to tell what will
prove to be pertinent information in Steppin. There are too many people who are using this dance as a means to hustle money,
become popular, or achieve their own goals to know one way of flushing out the BS. I have met more people supposedly from
Chicago in the past few years, who can't tell me where they went to school here, or where the school is to shake a stick at
. . . And I've seen more "Master" Instructors who've been dancing less that 5-10 years than I've ever seen (At 5
years I was dancing 5-6 days a week and wasn't a master). There is a lot a BS out here, and some of it is attached to popular
names too . . . The BIG question you must ask, IF YOU REALLY CARE (everybody doesn't) is: Does this fit into the framework
of Steppin? Not a school of thought or a count method...Steppin should bridge gaps, not create them . . . And the other thing
that I really suggest is that you come to Chicago & go to different types of parties that play different types of music
and have dancers of varying age groups. When you can exist in ALL of these environments and have a good time, then you are
implementing dance concepts that are legitimate . . . I feel like my answer is a little incomplete, but I hope that this prescription
helps!!! Q:.....I
learned how to step through the 8-count method. I've been steppin for about three three years and I have had mostly old school
steppers and some advanced steppers tell me that they can tell that I'm counting. (I count in my head and not out loud, especially
with advanced dancers or people I've never danced with before). How do I either get better as not to appear counting or learn
how to just "dance" to the music? I've also had men tell me not to count, just "look sexy and dance." A:..... (Immediate Sidebar - Steppers, please stop referring
to yourselves as 6 or 8 count dancers . . . It does not matter on any level!!! The idea that it does, is a LIE! And ANY Instructor
who says that it matters is a scam artist. I learned using the original 8-ct format, which is 123,123,12...which was reborn
in the 90's as 123,456,78. I teach using the 6-ct method because I like it better. I could use the 8-ct method, but I don't
like it...better dancers are produced based on the ability, talent, and knowledge-base of your Instructor, not the count method
he or she uses. Announcing what count method used tells an Instructor or anyone else for that matter, NOTHING. I have NEVER
asked or not asked, not enjoyed or enjoyed, a dance based on the count method that person used or learned with . . . I didn't
even know . . . BUT . . . I have done those things based on how the person performed the BASIC STEP!!! Also, certain Instructors
teach certain elements that can be seen a mile away, so another dancer may be able to tell where you learned based on some
habits, but NO Instructor can tell what count method you're using unless you are giving it away by some other habit that you
have.) Now, to directly answer your question .
. . In my opinion, one of the shortcomings of most of the instructional methods out here, is that the entire curriculum that
most instructors use is entirely based on counting. The problem with this is, that students learn to dance to numbers, rather
than learning to dance to the song that’s playing. This is evident by the fact that many dancers appear to be off beat
or NOT dancing to the song that’s playing. These dancers tend to listen to the beat of the song to establish where they
will start counting as opposed to listening to the song for enjoyment & expression. What should happen is that the student learns the BASIC formats using a reference system such as the 6 or
8 count methods, or some other method, then the student should be weaned off those numbers "early" in the learning
process so that they can learn how to apply those steps to the elements taking place in the song that’s playing, particularly
the main drum beat, rather than reciting numbers. Most dancers prior to 1990, never used a count system at all to learn how
to Step . . . they learned by learning the steps or basic format, and then learned where to execute those steps to perform
the dance, then, they learned how to style those movements developing a "style." Although this method took considerably
longer to get better at the dance, it developed a deeper understanding of the dance as well as an appreciation for it. All too often people say that they enjoy Steppin because it allows them
to express themselves or to enjoy some good music . . . Well, how can you learn, listen to, or appreciate good music when
you're counting through the whole experience?!?! I don't see how you can even hear the song really, or truly get into what
the Artist is trying to share with you. How does this
all relate to you, and your issue? .....When you are dancing, you "tip your hand' so to speak by your facial expressions,
body language, breathing patterns, how you focus you eyes or attention & several other factors . . . When these elements
of "YOU" are not relaxed, comfortable, or relating to the music, they tell your partner who may not be counting
that you are not really comfortable with dancing or are not really enjoying the "ACTUAL" song but are simply listening
to the beat because your dance is lacking "emotional value or expression" . . . in other words, you're focusing
on something other than the song or having FUN!!! This effort is usually buried in the desire to NOT MAKE MISTAKES . . . but
Steppin is mistake-friendly, but people have become so focused on being "good" or "contest-caliber" that
you never get a chance to really "relax." My
suggestion is that you STOP COUNTING, and learn to perform the BASIC step in comfort and without the worry of "messin
up" . . . I mess up all the time, and I never apologize for it. This is dancing, and it’s for FUN!!! Listen to
the beauty of the music . . . relate to it and allow yourself to be free to mess up and fix it all at the same time without
missing a beat . . . This is the true genius of the Steppin genre. Learn to move based on popping your fingers or the main
beat. "Moving sexy..." means to allow yourself more freedom, but stay in control while dancing....when the song
is pretty be pretty, when its happy & bouncing, move free & happy. Letting go of the numbers is okay!!! Anyone who
advises you differently has yet to TRULY understand or even really do this dance the way it was intended. Hope this prescription
helps . . .
"ASK THE DANCE DOCTOR!!!" featuring Dave Maxx 09-01-09 I'd like to Thank everyone for their & support for my column here with Lana every week!!! Due
to its success, I am also doing a regular blog that will include some additional in-depth essays - questions & topics,
in addition to past questions that I've done here on the Dance Doctor Column...so continue to catch me here every week
as well and become a subscriber to my blog...CHECK IT OUT!!!..... http://dance-doctor.blogspot.com/ And thanks again....and
on to this week's questions!!! Q:....I live in Los Angeles, but have gone Steppin in Chicago several times. I notice
that male steppers who live in Chicago treat female steppers on a more gentlemanly side than some of the male steppers
here -- several of whom are originally from Chicago. I notice that male steppers who live in Chicago do not
mash the women into their chests when walking. They don't jam women into their faces during the carousel. They
don't pat or rub females' upper hip at the end of the dance. They walk a woman at least to the edge of
the dance floor when the dance is over, instead of letting her go on her own. Men who live in Chicago don't seem
to make it a practice to stay on the dance floor for 6 or 7 dances in a row, simply picking the next partner off
as she finishes a dance. It gives the sense of a rooster standing in the middle of the barnyard, picking feed off
piece by piece as he turns 360 degrees. I notice that when male steppers (instructors and otherwise) who live in Chicago
and visit Los Angeles, Oakland and other cities, are more respectful toward their dance partners. All cities have their
unique culture I'm sure, but could it be that in Los Angeles, dancefloor familiarity gives some men a sense that
this kind of treatment is o.k.? Are there any guidelines for stepping etiquette regarding these observations? Thanks
for your response. A:....WOW! That's
a lot going on...but let's look at this from a different angle. Several times when I've done workshops in different cities,
I've watched men who come into the class, and during down-time, they execute a turn with a "stylish" flair that
compromises their ability to perform the turn properly or maintain the "lead" element needed for the woman "following"
to "know" what the Lead is asking for. In most cases they blame the woman, but its usually "clearly" their
fault. WHY?....But first let's go a step further first.... For example, this stepper will use one finger to execute a turn, rather than using more of the hand
to insure better contact & stability in the turn...Just as an example, I'm going to point to Dre Blackwell because he
is very popular dancer & uses that "stylish flair" often. But, before we do that...we have to point to a very
important RULE OF LEARNING, especially when learning to do something as interpretive as Steppin or Dance in general....the
RULE IS.....NOTHING IS WHAT IT SEEMS!!! YOU MUST ASK QUESTIONS to find out if what you saw, was actually what was taking place.
So let's go back to our example
dancer.....Dre is one of the best Steppers around, he's been dancing for about 15 yrs and knows the ins & outs of the
dance better than most people ever will. As a result, he is in a position to make "cosmetic" changes to executing
certain moves without affecting the movement itself, such as just using a couple of fingers to make a turn work...HE KNOWS
that additional force must be used to make sure that the woman can "get the message". But, to the "naked"
eye, it really loooks like he's simply & lightly twirling the woman with a finger or two. The fact that he is exerting
additional force to accomodate the turn cannot be seen, unless you are really paying attention, which most people don't do.
But it looks great!!! On the "down-side"....a lot of newer steppers think its better to watch & learn,
than to take the time to ask questions about certain moves & their corresponding actions.....RATHER they mimic what they
think they saw....and in most cases end up doing the "wrong" thing.....STAY WITH ME HERE!!! One
more venture off....One of the major things that I warn Steppers in other cities of doing is becoming "star-struck"
with the "Chicago Experience"......YES! Steppin started here.....YES! The BEST Steppers are here (...and No I don't
care how far you've come...the best are here simply because we've done it longer...sorry).....and one more YES! There
is Steppin every night....even if ain't good steppin...LOL!!! BUT, GUESS WHAT?....even though we have all this great Steppin Life
going on...we have problems too...some of which may not seem so 'right in front of you" when you're standing there
because you're having such a great time enjoying the Chicago Stepper's Life for a few days.....So what's my point.... Most of the behaviours that you described are things that happen right here in Chicago on a very regular basis....and just
like the stepper who came here and saw a great thing happening & had a fabulous experience....other Steppers were watching
people that they wanted to emulate on some level, but rather than paying attention or asking questions, this stepper started
mimicing behaviour that they thought they saw, or didn't fully understand...and assumed that that was the way that "good"
steppers behaved, or became a "heavy hitter"....they picked up a bad habit that put them on the wrong side,
thinking that they were cool when in actuality they have simply become "offensive". The behaviour that you described
is that that is growing in Steppin, and the ONLY way to make it stop is to SPEAK UP and make it stop. when things are happening
and we do or say nothing.....we quietly lend our approval. Ladies!!! At some point it can't just be about
getting dances...you have to be respected as well, otherwise this isn't FUN. Etiquette is a matter thats an integral part
of Steppin, and when that starts to wander its time to be concerned. Start telling men when their behaviours or style is
offensive and you will start to see a change in these trends...just like lil kids pick up bad habits new9baby) steppers do
the same thing till they're corrected. Q:....Often, if a woman does not execute a move they're lead into, the man will
begin instructing the woman on how to do it, without recognizing that perhaps they did not lead the woman into the move properly. This
is a turn off for many women. What is the best way for women to handle this situation? Also, is it ever appropriate
for a man or woman to instruct their partner when dancing socially, and if so, how can it be done so as not to be
offensive? A:....My
first response to this question is to say just don't dance with that "clown" anymore.....Unfortunately, men
who do this don't realize that in most cases if the turn got messed up, that its most likely their fault!!! It is not
a woman's "job" to EVER "learn" a turn....its the man's "job" to guide her where she is
"suppose" to go. (Unfortunately, too many women don't realize that they should not be learning turns, but rather
learning how to react to hand movements/gestures to facilitate executing turns.) In most cases, if the man actually LEADS the turn properly, the woman willl almost immediately know
that she made a mistake, and will usually ask what she didn't do right. More than likely, she simple made an assumption rather
than follow the initiated move, or she committed the cardinal steppin sin of "anticipation". This is the only time
that a guy should be giving instruction on the floor. In the same vain, if a woman is being lead in a manner that is uncomfortable
or she's simply not getting what the man wants, it is okay to to advise him or tell him what you need to make it work.
In all other cases, IT IS NOT COOL!!!...unless the person asks for help. Now, I'm not sure if I'm the best person to ask on
how to tell someone how to "kick rocks with their fabulous instruction"....but the simplest way that I can come
up with is to tell the person that you came out to dance, not to take their dance class. Also,
keep in mind that making mistakes in this dance is a "learning" experience, and some of the best moves were created
from mistakes.....Most men doing this dance don't realize that the world isn't watching or waiting for them to turn into the
next Steppin Superstar...first of all it doesn't work that way, so stop stressin' and have some FUN!!! Thats what this is
about as well as what makes women wanna dance with you in the first place...not because she's impressed with your "assumed"
knowledge of the dance....SO SHUT UP & DANCE ALREADY!!! and if you know me....you know I don't care if you like how I
said that....LOL!!!! That's my prescription!!!!
WHAT'S LANA SAYING IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY
"ASK THE DANCE DOCTOR!!!" featuring Dave
Maxx 08-10-09
Q: I followed your advice about
asking Brothers to dance. It worked a little, and it didn't work as well as I wanted it too. I don't mind asking a man
to dance, but I really don't like getting turned down. It takes a lot for me to even ask, but why is it that a guy thinks
he's all that to the point that he can turn me down, its not like I'm ugly or that I can't dance. What do you have to say
now Dr.? A: Well!!!.....Let me
bring you into the world of a man attending a social dance party....At this party, its like most parties...a lot more women
than men. Upon entering the party, a Gentleman speaks to a couple of people he knows...stands around a little to soak
up the aura & vibe in the room, then sees a lady that he'd like to dance with. After a couple of songs, he sees someone
he knows who is motioning to him to dance, and he obliges her. After a couple of more songs he leaves the floor and goes
to the bar for his beverage of choice, but while standing there someone comes up and asks for a dance...he puts his drink
on hold and returns to the dance floor once again. As he's leaving the floor, he notices someone from the class that he's
taking is motioning that she wants to dance...so he "has" to dance with her.....and after he finishes this dance
begins to head back to the bar to get that drink. He makes it to the bar and gets his drink and is then approached again by
a friend who loves the song that’s playing, so he puts the drink down at her table with her friends and heads to the
floor once again. When he gets to his drink, which is a little watered down, he enjoys the moment before finally hearing a
song that he likes. He sees a lady that he's really been wanting to dance with and walks over and asks her to dance and is
refused. He retreats to an open standing spot and "waits till later". After "his" song ends a lady walks
up and asks to dance just as his buddy stopped to talk, he shortens the conversation and accepts the dance request, and again
while leaving the floor gets another request after which, he sees someone else from his class that wants to dance. This cycle
goes on all night.....at the end of the night , this man had one watered-down drink, danced with 20 women, talked to none
of his friends, didn't dance on any of his songs, and got turned down repeatedly all night and didn't complain but took it
in stride even though some of the sistas was a lil rude. The BIG question is did this man have a good time
or was his "recreation" making sure that other people had a good time? So the next time he comes
out he decides prior to coming out that he doesn't want to dance the whole night, but rather just wants to have a couple of
drinks, actually talk to his friends, listen to the music, mellow out...then dance here and there. In the process, he turns
a couple of women down...its not personal, he was just enjoying "his" moment of RECREATION. What must
be realized is that when a guy (or lady) comes out that they can't be held accountable for making sure that you have a good
time. It’s not fair, because then they don't enjoy their moment. Asking a man to dance and getting turned down is not
the end of the world. We deal with it all the time....we even regularly get to be turned down then watch that same lady who
said she was tired dance with another guy on the same song. But we ask someone else.....It may be necessary to ask the guy
who you don't know that well, who isn't one of the best dancers or ain't the cutest guy in the room...if you need more
dances. BUT!!! The idea or suggestion is not "full-proof"...I can't give you something that’s
going to guarantee that you have a good time....every time, but if you're willing to reach out, I'm willing to bet that you
will dance more than you have been dancing, but you have to be open to the reality that men come out to enjoy their evening
too. Being told no doesn't mean that you are not an attractive dancer or that the man thinks he's all that, it simply means
that that dancers "moment" didn't happen at the same time as yours. As more men get into dancing it should
get better, but you can't wear-out the men who are there now. Q: I am an intermediate level dancer, but I find myself getting frustrated when I dance
with someone after they dance with a more skilled dancer. I get excited when I see a dancer having a good time, then
I want to dance. But when I do, I don't get the same reaction from the lady and it makes me self-conscious and I don't
want to dance anymore. We are doing the same moves, but I don't think we look the same? I want the same reaction - the smile,
the laugh, the kind look, but it’s not happening. How do I get the same reaction so that I can have fun too?
A: One of the most important factors in being a good dancer is accepting that "TIME"
is a major factor in how well you execute moves. People who have been dancing & practicing are able to also add "flair"
to the way they have been executing moves...they didn't always do it like that...and there is NO SUBSTITUTE for TIME. Skill
comes with time!!! Also, another problem that newer dancers have is that they compare their performance and
execution of moves to what others are doing......DO NOT DO THAT!!! Dancing is about "individual" performance &
expression....meaning that you have to learn to get comfortable and accepting of you and how you relate to the music and the
way it makes you feel and want to express. If you are comparing or trying to emulate someone else all the time, you take that
ability to self-express away. Enjoy the "ride" of learning to dance...by putting more time
into it and having FUN you will put yourself in a position to get better and develop that ability to "pull smiles"
as your skill level get s better. If you take it too fast, the smile you're looking for can become smug looks and getting
turned down because you lack the skill to properly execute...the best dancers are those who "KNOW" what they are
doing and bring it not by how flashy the move is, but by how much control and direction they bring when executing the movements....TAKE
YOUR TIME!!!
"ASK THE DANCE DOCTOR!!!" featuring 08-03-09 Dave Maxx I'd really like to THANK everyone who has been reading my column. I really appreciate the feedback,
kind words, and those who have taken the time to send in questions. I'd also like to give a BIG shout-out to some
of the Vegas Steppers who attended the Step On Unlimited Event in L.A. two weeks ago. They made me my workshop
hilarious & more FUN... while really convincing me that what happens in Vegas really does stay in Vegas, so I can't
wait to get back out there!!! Also, I apologize for the week off...but my travel schedule was nuts over the last month &
exhaustion set in. But let's get down to business....this weeks question and commentary is long, but its something to really
look at and think about.......you may not agree with all that I have to say, but at least ponder it and do your part
to erase the division that exists.
Q:
I've been hearing about the difference between old school and new school. What's the difference? Where are the old school
people anyway? I've only heard about the Majestic Gents party, and as far as the clubs, just the 50 Yard Line or Club D'Elegance.
I'm interested in learning more about the old school, but how?
A: There are several differences.... One of the most glaring is "Steppin" age
(which generally also determines how you learned), or to better describe it..."How long you have been dancing" -
If I'm not mistaken, the Old Schoolers cut off with those who started dancing in the late 80's give or take a couple
of the early 90's years. So we're talking about people who have been dancing at this point, at least 20 years. This group
tends to be a little more mature, in actual age, as it also includes those dancers who continue to term
"Steppin" as "Boppin", whether it be the old or new Bop. (Don't know what I mean?...that means you need
to visit an Old Skool set next time you're in the Chi...and its worth the visit) Also, this Era
of Dancer, generally DID NOT learn how to step on ANY count or in a class. They learned from a parent or at the side of the
dance floor....by listening to the music, learning the Basic "cadence", and then learning how to develop style and
footwork as they became more familiar with the dance. Old Schoolers "by practice" have a serious respect for
the primary tenets & purity of the dance and its history....ie: Etiquette (Stay in your lane, wait - its too crowded on
the floor, go around the dancing couple not through them, excuse me for over-stepping my lane or bumping you); Fashion (No
jeans at ballroom venues, no gym shoes/timberlands, shirt with a collar - not a white tee, remove your hat when dancing, ladies
dressed like women going out - not to shoot pool); Conversation (Its a social dance - conversate and have FUN, get to know
the person you're dancing with...just dancing doesn't mean you know them); Chivalry (Be a gentleman); Meaningful Music (This
style embraces music describing life experiences that generally moves at a pace that allows you to express through movement...though
it has its places for showmanship); and, Styling (This dance has always held stedfast to intricate & cool footwork
with turns included, its about controlled expression of emotion). Ego (Generally adheres to the thought that it doesn't take
all that to be seen....if you do it well, you will be seen and acknowledged but dancing ain't about being a star...its about
finding out more about yourself and tuning into the expressions of others). Old Schoolers, tend to embrace
"remember when"....the ability to create memories while upholding the cultural & historical value of Steppin,
and not its potential to create a reputation or popularity via contests or any other means. To them, it is uniquely seen
as an Art Form to be mastered slowly and.....They do not value contest participation or victories in the same vain
as newer dancers. They participated for the FUN of it (though they were competitive and wanted to win - it was the joy of
competition). They generally see it as a passing accolade that covered one night that could've been a lucky break, rather
than a forever standing declaration of talent. New School Steppers are generally those who came onto the
scene after the influx of younger dancers in the mid-90's and includes the "children/students" of this era of dancer(those
who have come into steppin in the last 10 years). These are the dancers who started to test the flexibility of the dance &
created a "new" spotlight on the dance because of their flair...some say that it was the influence of hip-hop and
house music because a lot of us from this "Era" identified with those elements, but had an appreciation for "classic"
style as well. The whole introduction of "New School" as I remember didn't really come from this group
of younger dancers, but rather came from those who learned the dance from this group. It was this original
group of "New/Younger" steppers that created a new "focus" in steppin because they quickly became high-profile
members of the community,...both because of their love for the dance, but also because they were a sort of "new blood". the
energy created by these dancers hit the community like a shockwave...but attention that they generated wasn't really focused
on the same elements attracted them to the dance but moreso focused on the "buzz" or "spotlight"
that they created. The challenge to dancers who followed after them became, yes about dancing, but the focus had
shifted to getting the spotlight & being "known" as opposed to simply enjoying the fun & beauty
of the dance. Unlike their counterparts....New Skool Dancers generally learn to step via a class and on a
count, but they are divided based on method..the ol' 6 vs 8 thing, rather than simply adherring to the fact that its an 8-step
dance not bounded by counts but rather by the "vibe" of the music. In addition, New School Steppin found the need
to introduce the influence of other styles of dance into Steppin...particularly salsa and ballroom dance, which
greatly altered the the integrity of the dance...although its claimed that there's an appreciation for steppin as an original
art form. By introducing these other genres, along with a change in attitude toward the dance....Following the general tenets
of steppin became quite difficult, which caused a riff between those who were here already and those coming onto the
Stepper "Set".
(Sidebar)...I'm still waiting for salsa & ballroom to feel the need to
inject steppin into what they do...but I really don't see that happening...Steppin had everything you needed in
it, if you were willing to take the journey, however long, to "get it".... In the eyes of the Old
Skoolers, the New Stepper had an attitude of "entitlement" based on skill as oppose to a reputation earned
over time through actual experience...Steppin became about the move rather than about the music. This new
development got away from the music and focused more on counting steps that it did about relating to the music, more about
turns, which were introduced for "flash" value, and less about real footwork. the new elements were exciting, but
they threw caution to the wind in relation to what was there already....ie: Etiquette (Staying in your lane is not a staple
in this era...its more about as much space as you need which is paramount considering the new turns which don't adhere to
small space...and if its a hot song, "I'm gettin on the floor and you get off if you have too, because its my moment
to shine...also, because of the influx of trio dance...people just jump in with out even asking...I've even done it...LOL);
Fashion (anything goes...its more about the moves than it is about dress...yes, new Schoolers do dress, but its not the same
pride of style thats held by the Old Heads...jeans is dressing up); Conversation (Its a social dance - but you generally don't
have time to talk because there are so many back-to-back turns...except when the guy is constantly trying to be your "new"
instructor on the floor cause he thinks thats impressive); Chivalry (Its just not the same....I don't even think we need to
hit this one. Gentlemen at least take your hat off); Meaningful Music (New school music is more about showmanship, so it tends
to be faster and includes more instrumentals); and, Styling (This style is about turns, simply put. Footwork is talked about,
but rarely "actually" seen...I'm sorry to have to say it, but the men now-a-days don't even know how to move their
feet & style...they just walk back n' forth. Its all about the next move, so the dance rarely slows down). Ego (Generally
adheres to the thought that I'm trying to be "the best", who is the best, and about who has a trophy...Its ALL about
being "known".. A contest is all that matters because 'that will catapult me into exposure' or maybe I need
to start a class...although I'm still taking them, or have only been dancing a year, because teachers are popular).
Other differences are that Old Skoolers do all of the dances that make up the Steppin genre at their parties....Steppin,
Boppin, "real" Walkin, "real" High-Steppin...even a little Slow-Bop...and I'm not talkin about made up
stuff.....New Schoolers usual just do Steppin..... You generally find New School Steppers at Club D'Elegance,
Orbies, Klub Karma, the Gent party (though its been around a long time), and now at the 50's Afternoon brunch on
Saturdays, etc...while you find the Old Heads actually "In the City" - Some of the groups to look for....New
Distinguished Friends, Good Times Productions, Black Mary's Original Old Timers, Leanna Richards 3rd Friday at the 50, The
Dancettes at the 50, East of the Ryan on Friday nights, Events by Don Vic & Solomon, Just Us Productions & Bernard
Shannon's Men's Hat Club where men must wear a blazer...these are just a few. This is where you will find the "real" Legends
of the dance (and that may not include your curent fave instructor or dancer) and see who "doesn't come out anymore,
supposedly". The Old Schoolers retreated from the "popular or mainstream" events to be at events and venues
that tended to stick to the "original" style of music and the dance. This comparison does not mean
that being a New Schooler is a bad thing....but it has created some questionable elements in my opinion....doing things
differently is cool...but we can't sacrifice the original at the same time, all in the name of progress or
"changing times". gettin older doesn't mean that it gets useless...you just gotta learn how to work it.....
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"ASK THE DANCE DOCTOR!!!" featuring Dave
Maxx 07-20-09
Q:What is your perspective on women's 'styling'? Can there be too much & if so, how much is too much? And, how
does it affect the overall dance with a partner? There seems to be a trend here where the ladies are styling so much that
the basic step no longer looks like the basic step. And a lot of them really look the same. I'd really like to know your thoughts
on this? A:I
have always loved watching women dance who can actually STYLE (not re-create a routine) while they
are dancing...a few of the best, & my faves are Leanna Richard, Angie Faine, Cynthia Shanks, Darlinda Russell, Charnice
Simmons, Jackie Dace and Linda of the Foxettes. What makes these women so unique is that they have developed the ability to
reflect the feel & style of the dance that each individual partner gives them, while also finding their own place &
relationship with the song that they are dancing to. What also happens...is that they are able to do this within the framework
of the lane and the Basic "Pattern" which keeps them in line with spacing, etiquette, etc. In addition they realize
their role in the dance....which is...TO FOLLOW!!!....NOT...to know the turn, to do footwork & styling, or to get a workout
into a sweating episode,...but rather to reflect and follow what the Lead is doing, AND while performing this task, to be
the ultimate embellishment of the dance. YES!!! The job of the follower is difficult and requires an "I'm Every Woman
Attitude", but when done properly can be a very beautiful performance to watch. How does that take place? First
of all, the Follower must learn where the prime opportunities are to do Styling....the primary job of the person following
is that they be available to perform the requests of the Lead. Which means the Follower should not ever be saying, "Wait,
I'm not finished doing my footwork or my special move!" Doing footwork or special moves is not your job, so you have
to figure out how and where it goes...its like being on Facebook at work, you can't always do it...but if you do, you must
fit it in around your real job...LOL!!! Also, some footwork & special moves are bogus...if you have to announce it, either
it doesn't work or doesn't fit. Just like the LEAD shouldn't have to talk you through a turn, you should FEEL where you're
suppose to go....you have to FEEL when its time to fit styling or footwork in. Styling should not impead the Lead, but add
to what he is doing....so if it is, its too much. If the Lead lets you go, you only have as much time until he reaches for
your hand again...NOT wait till I'm done, I got a routine over here to finish. Any Styling, Footwork, Pausing, etc should
fit in the the BASIC "directional" framework of slightly up & back, and inside the lane - on your side of the
lane. One
of the biggest compliments to any dancer is to see something that someone does that you consider to be worth mimicking or
puttin in your own 'bag of moves".....YET...you never want to reproduce that move exactly like the person you got it
from. Steppin is about "self-expression", and although a lot of us do the same moves, its more about our own interpretation
of that movement than the move itself. If you do everything exactly the way someone else does it, then all people see is the
person you got the move from, especially if they are popular...they never get to see YOU. This is something to keep in mind
when learning or picking up new moves take a little of it and then "WORK" on the move to make it yours and so that
it can reflect you...otherwise you and whoever else liked that move all look the same. The Ladies that I mentioned above ALL
have different styles...and are all very smooth, but while they do a lot of the same moves, they all have their own angle
by which they perform them....Take Note of that in your practice & prep for the dance floor. Q:I live in an area where there are only a handful of decent or intermediate male steppers now. Most
of the females here have to travel to attend sets/parties/workshops in order to get dances with better steppers in other cities.
How can an intermediate female stepper get "up to speed" with the likes of Lady Margaret, Sherri Gordon, Candace
Hinton, Sarah Teague, Sunshine, etc (sorry if I left other female "heavy hitter" names out. These are the first
names that came to mind.) if we only have beginner/intermediate men locally to dance with? A: PATIENCE...PATIENCE...PATIENCE...PATIENCE...and more PATIENCE!!!!!!!
What is wrong with dancing and growing with the men who are dancing on the level you are dancing at? Learning to Step, and
getting better at it is not a race!!! Furthermore, by disregarding the men in your community, eventually you work your way
out of the minds of the men who one day will not be beginner/intermediate...then the question is what do I do to get a dance?
It becomes a cycle. You say that you have to travel to dance with better dancers, but you have to stop looking over the fence
to the yard thats been growing a little bit longer than yours. What makes those other dancers better is only the fact that
they have been dancing longer. 2 out of the 5 women you mentioned above have been Steppin over 10 years, and a couple of them
have been doing other forms of social dance since they were kids. I remember when ALL of them started dancing, and they were
NOT great dancers or dancing with the best dancers right out of the gate...they developed their skills over time dancing with
the men on their level and then drew the attention of better dancers.
You get better at this dance not simply by
dancing with the best people, but by dancing more often. Getting better at Steppin is rooted in repetition and practice...not
in WHO you dance with. What you should realize is, that there are more "regular joes" than there are "stars"
in Steppin. I know the whole world is probably considered a "heavy hitter" as soon as they start a class or get
in a contest...but even with that there are only so many 'better than average" dancers. With that in mind, it means that
most of us are going to spend the majority of our time dancing with the regular guy. If thats the case, you need to spend
as much time as possible dancing with the guy thats learning...who may not always indicate properly what he wants, may turn
a little off, may misguide at times, or have little habits that you have to figure out...Dancing with this partner actually
makes you better because its a challenge that makes you pay attention! The more seasoned dancer isn't gonna make those mistakes
and is gonna put you exactly where he wants you....there is no real challenge there beyond paying attention, which you learned
to do with the average dancer. This takes off some of the pressure & its FUN to have the experience because you can easily
realize what he wants & now have the ability to contribute in that dance because you understand better.
You
have to ask, how many dances are you gonna get with a great dancer?...not many...Therefore it is imperative that you dance
with the men who are growing and developing so that you can learn to better respond to that "regular"level of dancer
(which can still be good) because that is who you spend more of your time dancing with. Getting a dance with someone "heavy"
is a treat, but not a requirement for getting better. Steppin is a male/lead-centered dance, and you have to be committed
to the men in your community in order for it to grow & create a larger pool of "good" dancers, otherwise you're
just going broke (travel expenses) to lay claim to whats going on somewhere else and only gettin a couple of dances in in
the process.
"ASK THE DANCE DOCTOR!!!" 07-15-09featuring Dave Maxx From Lana Reid's column "Whats Lana Saying This Week dated 07-15-09
Q:Why are there so many Brothers
that want to lead the dance but don't want learn how to follow when dancing? Do you think that in learning to follow that
you will improve the rhythm and timing for you and your partner? A:As learning to Step
has become more popular, its become increasingly enticing to cut corners to becoming a better dancer. I call it "Microwave
Steppin"...short on the fundamentals. For instance, a lot of men are now told that they don't need to learn Basic, so
you end up with a bunch of guys who can't really dance, but who can pull out 1,000 turns at the drop of a hat. The reality
is that most women don't wanna be turned 1,000 times or be the person "doin all the work" during a dance, while
the Lead is just pacing back and forth...BUT...Women deal with it because they want to dance. The truth is, that learning
to "Dance" AND "Lead" is harder to do and takes more time, so its a road less travelled...BUT, it turns
out better dancers that don't need a lot of turns to remain interesting and, who can really actually enjoy the ART of dancing
along with their partner, and not just walk around.
On the other hand...learning to "follow" does not
Guarantee that a man is going to be a better lead or dancer. Many of the BEST male dancers DO NOT follow....though
some do, most of the Legendary Steppers that I know follow very little. But what they did do was to allow TIME to be their
best teacher which has allowed them to grow over time, and which is something that "new" dancers tend to reject
because they "want it all now". Men who don't have a desire to follow can be just as good or aware a Lead as men
who do learn that Art. Reasons for avoiding it range from its not always seen as macho -to- not being interested in Trio dancing,
which is really why most of the men who do it learn in the first place. In reality, its not practical to learn to follow unless
you want to Trio or are an Instructor.
Now, in my opinion, learning to Lead & Follow does open up a better
understanding of the dynamics of the dance because you should naturally develop an appreciation for and better relate to the
role that the other person plays in the dance...it also makes for more FUN...but there's no guarantee that its gonna make
timing or rhythm better. I have danced with guys who follow terribly and lead the same way. I am convinced that it will help
you make better transitions while dancing and it helps to cover mistakes. Learning to Follow is like learning more about anything
else, you now have more options to get things done...it may even open your eyes to some things and help you make some improvements,
but you can't see it as a key to making you better. If that were the case, we'd be all playing basketball
at the pro-level cause we do some new drill. Q:What
is your opinion on Brothers that talk a good game when it refers to the Art of Steppin because it is an art indeed? To be
more clear, Brothers sound real good when talking about the Craft but when you see them dance they don't look appealing at
all.....What do you think is the motivation for such behavior? A: Going back to the basketball thing....Brothers traditionally talk a good game all the time (...and
it doesn't matter what the game is). But how many men have taken the time to be diligent and really apply themselves to be
good at it.....to develop a good jump-shot, dribble with both hands & hustle on D'. Very few!!!...cause when I was playin,
I was trying to figure out on many days if this Brother really meant that he could play basketbal...not shoot marbles. I mean
did this man not realize he was a "busta".
The Steppin Game has a lot of the same issues for Brothers!
Like basketball, we (Brothers) are expected to be able to dance, but a lot of the times our egos get in the
way of us really putting in the hard work it takes to be impressive, and dance lessons isn't the desired way to get there
for men. We aren't wired to think of dancing as something that you need lessons for...or for that matter that we need more
than a few lessons if we agree to go.
Then you add to that the pressure of performing for our Sisters (who ain't
always easy to please - makin faces of displeasure & turning down the Brother who ain't that sexy or popular) and it gets
that much harder. Add to that the Super Instructor who tells you about a hot new short-cut, all the while tellin you how great
you look (especially if you're a clone), or giving you info that doesn't work across the board, and its off to the races.
And don't forget the Brother "doin his own thang" who created his own method, cause he mixin' it all up. Pick a
reason!!!
I believe that every Brother desires to be a good dancer and not just talk a good game, but Brothers
need to be encouraged and allowed to "slow-cook to perfection" rather than "flash-fried to crispy oblivion".
We all desire to satisfy our dance partner's hunger for enjoyment and social interaction, but some things need to change to
take away the pressure and instill the FUN of being able to enjoy each other on such an artistic level as this. We have to
get back to "Steppin to Enjoy" instead of "Steppin to Impress". Because, just like in basketball...most
of us will never be 6'5", have a 50-inch vertical leap, or rain from three without regard to who's playin D' or wear
a championship ring....We gotta put in the work to be fundamentally sound and in control for the FUN of it!!!
When
Brothers are shown that this can be FUN and not be a constant contest to be acknowledged or accepted, but appreciated...then
I think that you'll see more Brothers less concerned about being top dog and actually LOOK GOOD dancing....because what makes
it appealing is watchin a Brother comfortable is his skin, cool & in control!!!
"ASK THE DANCE DOCTOR!!!" featuring Dave
Maxx 06-29-09
Q:
How will you know when you have your basics down and are ready to move to the next level? A:To answer this question directly,....A Beginning Student is NOT ready to move to
the next level until they can perform the Basic Step, Primary Turns (Right, Left, Half), and have learned to keep their weight
forward over the balls of their feet and off of their heels. Also, they should be able to perform all of these movements WITHOUT
COUNTING, (whether 6 or 8 makes no difference - basic step, is basic step), and while able to hold a conversation and not
get side-tracked. There are several reasons that its necessary to learn it this way.....BASIC Steppin
"alone" is simply a foot-based exercise, but that is simply "the beginning". Once you get over this hurdle,
it'll be necessary to take your focus off simply performing steps and adapt to the influence of someone else...you'll be in
the position where you have to lead or follow, and need to focus your attention there....all while your feet need to react
on "auto-pilot"....responding to the rhythm of the song being played....NOT repeating numbers over and over. Dancing is an emotional experience. And therefore, the purpose of dancing is to enjoy the music...its tones, breaks,
pauses, instruments and voices...how do you do that and count at the same time? One of the GREATS...Ice Ray says, "You
can't dance to a song that you don't know!" Yet, that doesn't simply mean not to get on the floor because you don't know
the words. You always hear how Steppin allows you to enjoy the music
and express yourself....you can't do that and count over and over. Music changes and adjusts as it flows and our dancing should
do the same if we take the TIME to learn the little things that set a good foundation for us to really get better...learn
the steps like you learn a song a little at a time and it will be so much more enjoyable. Getting
to the "next level" in Steppin seems to be the primary goal of every Beginning student, so much so that they miss
the FUN of learning to dance and of really getting their "fundamental foundation" set. So much focus is put on "Getting
Your Game Up"..."Dancing in the World's Largest"... "Getting Known & Being a Heavy-Hitter"..."Not
Ever Making Mistakes"...etc. Many people try to figure out what makes Chicago natives look so smooth....we took our time,
learned the basics, and learned the songs so that we had something to express and the tools to express it. P.S. And don't just learn the NEW songs...Steppin was built on the CLASSICS, and that’s
where your REAL skill as a dancer is challenged. Anybody can dance fast all night, but to slow down and develop style....to
learn to express yourself to music that has passion is what separates the dancers from the Steppers.... Hope this prescription
helps!!! Q:Where do I get women's comfortable, but
sexy stepping shoes?
A:
One of the problems that Steppers face is that we need good equipment that allows us to follow the rules...and one of those
rules is to look good...not just look nice, but to be "razor sharp" at all cost. The problem with that is that there
are no "qualified" shoes that serve that purpose and allow us to follow that rule. generally you "luck"
up on a shoe that’s comfortable or your favorite, but that pair doesn't set off the alarms. Standard Ballroom and Salsa
dance shoes provide some of the best support and comfort levels available when dancing. The down-side is that they are not
"Stepper Sexy" and they cannot be worn outside because they have suede soles. Unfortunately you have a choice to
make in this area...which is more important for you: comfort or fashion. Jimmy Choos & Santana's are off the chain, but
they were made to be looked at and not be functional on a dance floor. One thing I do suggest is "dance sneakers"
when you're practicing and doing classes. They offer a lot of support and your feet can handle hours of dancing while wearing
them and not be worn out afterwards.
"ASK THE DANCE DOCTOR!!!" featuring Dave Maxx I'd like to thank everyone who expressed their excitement and sent
well-wishes through the week on me joining Lana's weekly newsletter. I really appreciate the support. I'd also like to thank
Lana for being interested in getting more information out to the dance community about Steppin so that dancers don't have
to continue to "shoot in the dark". I hope that the information that I share here is helpful to your development
as a Stepper and assists in making your dance experience more enjoyable...so let's get to work!!!
Q:
How do you politely tell your dance partner that he/she needs a tic tac?
A:Wow!!! This isn't one that I expected, but here goes.....The one way that I can think of
to politely remedy this problem isn't to say something, but to offer a solution to the problem rather than to simply point
it out. Offer that dance partner a mint, and if they turn it down...offer them an alternative; gum, candy, etc. Being politely
forceful in offering should get them the message without creating an embarrassing moment. Q:Is it proper for a man to wear a hat on the dance floor?
A: In one word...NO!!!! A man should NEVER ask a "LADY"
to dance and then be disrespectful by keeping his hat on during the dance. His hat should be removed and placed on the table
if the couple is dancing/steppin, or if they are Walking, the hat should be given to the Lady who holds the hat during the
dance...its actually sexy to see that done. All too often we throw common courtesy to the wind. You don't see men stand when
women enter a room anymore. Guys don't make sure that they walk curb-side when walking with a Lady. And men don't even give
their seats to women that they know that are standing. Steppin is a dance based on ETIQUETTE...ask for a dance, stay in your
lane space, hold the lady this way, apologize when you bump someone, so GENTLEMEN, Please remove your hats on the dance floor...its
not cute!!! From
"What's Lana Saying This Week? " (June 21, 2009)
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| BENEFITS
OF LINE DANCINGThe benefits of line dancing and all types of dancing are many: weight loss, control of high
blood pressure, control of diabetes, cholesterol, stress management, reduce risk of heart disease, strengthen bones and muscles
without hurting your joints, improve your posture and balance, which in turn can prevent falls, increase your stamina and
flexibility and build confidence. Some amazing
line dancing facts: (1) as a result of dancing, soul line dancers have lost weight, reduced their stress and cholesterol
levels, lowered their blood pressure and hardly ever catch colds; (2) soul line dancers come in all colors, shapes and sizes
and have incredibly high IQ's; and (3) it is spreading like a virus!!! People, this is a fun way to start getting in
shape and meeting new people and have fun all at ! the same time. This is why dancing is so much fun and is so popular.
It is not that we are trying to take over, but if you do not have a partner, you do not have to wait to be asked to dance!
You can jump up and join the fun on the floor and best of all, get in shape, all while having fun.
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On the dance floor in the club....as long as you stay in your lane & your partner is cool with all of the changes....innovate all you want, but don't expect to be called a genius for it. And if you intend to teach people or want to compete, you need to learn how to do the dances properly, not make stuff up and call it good enough or make the claim that its your style. Style in Steppin does not mean change the dance...it means to actually be innovative enough to embellish on whats there, without making it something else. And yes, that is hard to do....its not suppose to be easy!!!